What should I do with my hair? HELP!!!!!?

I have light brown/dark blonde hair and it's almost shoulder length. I need something that will make me stand out and be myself because I feel like my drab hair is making me boring. I'm willing to do anything with it. I cut my hair about 3 months ago and I have bangs, but I sweep them up and to the side so it does a flip thing. Like Ariels bangs from the little mermaid. I'm punkish but I need to know what looks good. I have a square/oval face and bright blue eyes, pale skin. Websites will work as advice too THANKS!!!